Part of Toys after transition: products, videos and quick answers in one place.

Bodies change during transition, and so does what feels good. There’s no wrong place to start. These are practical starting points, not rules.

After surgery

Wait until your surgeon clears you. Then start small and soft, go slow and use plenty of water-based lube. Your care team knows your timeline best, so ask them anything.

With growth on testosterone

Small external vibrators, suction toys and stroker-style sleeves tend to fit well. Go by size and shape rather than the label on the box.

If you have both, or you’re not sure

Look for products marked internal, external or both, and compare the insertable length and diameter on the product page with something you already use.

Good habits for everyone

• Use water-based lube with silicone toys.
• Clean before and after with warm water and mild soap or toy cleaner.
• Stop if anything hurts.

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